Remember being a kid? Imagine if the adults around you listened intently to everything you said. How would you have felt? Valued? Important? Like your feelings matter? Now imagine giving your kids those gifts. You may be able to do just that when you listen to them carefully. Here are some tips to improve your listening in a way that might help everyone.
Kneel down and give them your eyes as well as your mind. This can help kids feel valued. And it models how to listen.
Respond by saying "Okay" or nodding. This tells your child that you're listening.
Repeating in your own words what your kids said confirms that you listened. Try to understand what they mean before speaking.
Let kids fully explore and express their feelings before you respond.
Sometimes just being heard is enough.
Taking the time to listen carefully to your kids can help them feel that you care. And when you really hear what they say, you may feel better too.
Current as of: June 24, 2023
Author: Healthwise Staff Clinical Review Board All Healthwise education is reviewed by a team that includes physicians, nurses, advanced practitioners, registered dieticians, and other healthcare professionals.
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